Sunday, November 16, 2008
some pictures, finally
Ethiopia 2008
Friday, November 7, 2008
back safely
It's always hard for me to leave my friends in Ethiopia. I have become so close to them, especially on this trip. So it was really hard to say goodbye to them again. I feel pretty confident that I will be returning within the year, hopefully for good - or at least a long time.
Now comes the hard part: preparing to move there. I have some things I need to do, such as become ESL (English as a Second Language) certified, work more on my Amharic, and of course get rid of these loans. I'm hoping that the time passes relatively quick and I can get back to Ethiopia soon.
My laptop with all my pictures is in the lost bag. Once that shows up, I'll try to upload some pictures to the blog.
That's all folks.
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
the hardest day
Monday, November 3, 2008
just a quick note
Friday, October 31, 2008
some stories i haven't had time to post...
Thursday, October 30, 2008
only a few more days
Monday, October 27, 2008
which country is foreign?
Friday, October 24, 2008
a few more days
Monday, October 20, 2008
water, again
Sunday, October 19, 2008
weddings
some people who are members of Yenoh Merkeb (Noah's Ark, the parent
NGO of the PAAV program). I had met them one year back when they
helped us to translate during the Living Word trip last summer.
Actually, this was a double wedding. The groom in one of the couples
and the bride in the other were brother and sister. I was told that
this is not common, but when it is easy to do they may have a double
wedding like this to save some money. It was nice because they also
invited me to the pre-wedding party. It is for close friends and
family and it is a chance to see the bride and groom and wish them
well. Since these people are part of Yenoh Merkeb, they invited Frew
and the rest of the PAAV staff to this and I was invited along as
well. It was very nice, some injera and wat. Some singing and dancing.
I didn't understand most of the words, but it was still nice.
The actual ceremony is very similar to an American wedding. The pastor
gives a sermon about marriage, they exchange vows and rings. One thing
that was different was that they signed the marriage certificate as
part of the ceremony. And it seemed like a total of 3 extra people had
to sign it other than the married couple. There was some singing and
dancing as well. But, the main difference that I noticed between an
Ethiopian wedding and an American is the size. My guess is that there
were about 2,000 people at the ceremony and about 1,000 at the
reception. They said that this was the common size. It was a lot of
fun. I remember a few years back when I was in Hungary I went to a
wedding as well. I have always found it interesting seeing how other
cultures have their different ceremonies for the different rites of
passage.
That's about all that I have to report from today. The wedding took
the whole day. We left for the pre-wedding party at 10:30 or 11 and
didn't arrive back home until about 8pm. At that point we ate some
dinner, watched some TV and now I am typing this. And now I am going
to bed. We have a few errands to run tomorrow to prepare for going to
Sendafa on Tuesday.
Tebarek!
Saturday, October 18, 2008
Amharic
to the blog site, or even look at it. I'm thinking that it is blocked
in this country for some reason. I will explain when I get home. So, I
am emailing to the blog and it automatically posts. But, sometimes I
may end up repeating myself, so please forgive me.
I have been working on learning Amharic these last few days. I have
memorized most of the characters, but now I need to learn all of the
variations. Which number about 300 I think. So, it may take some time.
But I think that certainly by next year when I return I will have the
alphabet memorized and the pronunciations as well. Then, it will be
much easier for me to learn words and how to speak and read. It will
be very nice when I am able to speak it, because right now I often
feel out of place when people are speaking. I think the experience
here would be much richer if I knew the language. So, for now, that is
priority number one.
Tomorrow I am going to another wedding. The wedding is of someone who
is part of Frew's organization (Yenoh Merkeb, which mean Noah's Ark).
It should be a nice time, because I will know more people at the
wedding and I won't feel as much out of place as the one I went to the
other day. Also, I am sure that the injera and wat will be very good
there (though, all of the food I have eaten so far has been
wonderful).
I have been drinking the water with no problem, in fact I just had two
glasses at lunch a few minutes ago and I feel fine. You don't realize
how much you take things for granted until you cannot have them. So,
when I thought that I had to only drink bottled water it was a huge
burden. I was always having to make sure that I had enough around for
drinking, brushing teeth, etc. Even taking a shower was difficult
because I thought that I would not be able to swallow even a few
drops.
Another thing that was something I realized I was taking for granted
back home was showers. Many of you are probably laughing because you
realize that I don't shower everyday. But here, the shower happens
once per week. So, I had not taken a shower since I arrived here until
last night. And even then I almost didn't get to take one because the
hot water had run out. But more came rather quick so I was able. Right
now it is very dusty and dry here, the rainy season ended about 3 or 4
weeks back and it has been rather hot since then, so it all dried up
in the city. Although, the country is still a bit more wet than here.
Because it is so dusty, it is impossible to stay clean. We had the car
washed, and the next day it was extremely dirty again. Even driving
around you are constantly breathing in dirt and dust.
I have been thinking a lot about the things I don't even think about
at home, things I take for granted. The ability to communicate with
99% of people you come in contact with, fast and reliable internet,
knowing the customs, having easy access to water (the water has been
shut off in this part of the city all day today). It is amazing how
easy we have it in America, and we don't even realize it! Trips to
Ethiopia are a constant reminder of this and I believe that it has
given me a positive perspective in which to live.
I think thats about it. I hope you are all enjoying Autumn. It is my
favorite season, especially the month of October. So, I am a little
bit sad that I am missing it. Although I can't complain, the weather
here has been extraordinary. Cool mornings, hot days, cold nights.
Dehna hun, Dehna huni
p.s. Mike and Donna, the muzoch (bananas) have been awesome. I wish I
could bring some back for you guys.
Friday, October 17, 2008
in Sendafa once again
one year since I have been there, so it was very nice to visit it
again. There is a lot of new construction of homes and they are also
completely re-doing the main road through Sendafa. We were not there
very long, I think only 3 hours or so. And we had some trouble getting
there, the car had some problem with the axle (we spent hours waiting
for it to be fixed once we got back to Addis). I got to see a
construction of a new church, see some of the micro-financing
recipients.
But the best part of today was getting to be with the entire PAAV
staff again. They are all such wonderful people and I always enjoy
spending time with them. I had seen everyone before today except
Ageritu, so I was glad to finally see her on this trip. She is a very
nice lady, a single mom who works on this project and goes to school
as well.
I think that I will go back to Sendafa about 4 or 5 more times on this
trip. They generally go about twice per week, as there is not much
need to go more than that. There is a chance that we will have to go
an extra day or two to hand out all of the multi-vitamins to the
children, but we will see.
One other bit of news today: I am able to drink the water. I had
always thought the water was un-treated and contained a lot of
bacteria that would make me sick. But, as it turns out, in Addis they
treat the water with chlorine like we do in the states. So, I brushed
my teeth with it and drank a half glass of it today without any
problems. I wish I had known this on my prior trips because it sure
would have made eating and taking showers much easier.
I am very tired right now, I have been waking up at 4am for some
reason the last few days and so I have not gotten much rest. Luckily
tomorrow I am able to sleep in since we do not have any plans.
Hopefully I actually do sleep in.
Will try to write more tomorrow.
Tebarek
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
another day....
few days, or even a week, to transition to living here again. But
there was no delay in transition, it was immediately after I stepped
off the plane. It has been wonderful seeing my friends again, as if I
never left. Also, the weather is nothing short of fantastic. Yesterday
was bright and sunny, probably in the mid 80s - but was rather cool in
the shade. Couldn't ask for more.
Yesterday I got to see Shewayerged (another staff member of our
project) and I also got to see my friend Ruth in the evening. I had
forgotten to email Ruth until a few days before I left telling her
that I would be coming and she still hadn't gotten the email yesterday
- so she was very surprised to hear that I was here. I went out with
her, Frew and Frehiwot for a walk and some buna (coffee) in the
evening. It was very nice. She has a new job and is very happy about
it, her old one was not so good.
Still haven't done much other than spending time with my host family
and friends, but it has been nice. One of the main reasons that I
wanted to come to Ethiopia this time was to re-connect with everyone
here, so this has been a wonderful time.
The food has been wonderful also. I really do love injera and wat
(Ethiopian cuisine). Also, the food sits very well with me - I have no
trouble with the spice. Actually, I feel better than I do on my diet
at home. Another great reason to be in Ethiopia!
Ethiopians are very concerned about the U.S. elections, I guess the
whole world is. I have been talking a lot about it with my friends
here and we have been watching the news quite a bit. Seems to be that
the world is a rather scary place right now (war in Somalia,
Thailand/Cambodia, stock markets falling...). So, Ethiopians are
hoping that if a good president gets elected in America things may get
better in the world. Not surprisingly, most Ethiopians seem to support
Barrack Obama - he seems to have a better plan at helping the rest of
the world than McCain does.
One main reason that they do not want McCain to be elected is that
they fear that he will do very similar things that Bush has done
militarily. This directly affects Ethiopia. You see, Ethiopia and the
U.S. are allies. But the main reason that the U.S. is allied with
Ethiopia is to use the military base here. From here they can launch
attacks to Somalia (which they continue to do) and also to the Middle
East. Also, the U.S. has supported the Ethiopian military, which many
of the Ethiopian people are afraid of. Many Ethiopians believe that if
the U.S. no longer needs the military base here and if they stop
supporting the Ethiopian military that the current political regime in
Ethiopia will change. This would be a wonderful thing if the power
changed hands, given that the current state of things is very
oppressive here.
Not sure what is planned for today. I think that Frew wants to go
swimming, so we may end up doing that. I think we are also going to
start talking about what my long term job/goals could be when I end up
moving here.
Hope all is well with all of you back home.
p.s. I doubt that I'll be able to upload any pictures. I may try going
to a high-speed internet cafe next week if I can find one. But there
is no way that I would be able to upload any pictures from the home
computer. When I get back to the states I'll put them all online and
put a link on this blog.
back home
Well, the trip over here was very smooth. The flight from Newark was delayed about an hour, but not a big deal. We got to London in about 6 1/2 hours and I had the whole day to walk around and relax a bit. It was really nice. I went to the Whole Foods in Kensington, which was quite amazing. They had about 6 or 7 different restaurants on the third floor - thank God for that discount card! Other than that I simply walked around London for the day.
I left London on another overnight flight and got in this morning to Ethiopia at 7:30am local time (12:30am in PA). I was greeted by my host, Dr. Frew as well as Birhanu and Eshete - both of whom are part of our NGO (Non-Government Organization) staff. We had a few errands to run, but we made sure to stop and grab a machiatto before we came home. They really do have some great coffee here and it is so nice to drink such fresh coffee (and so cheap too!)
Didn't really do much today, we visited the Ethiopian Dept. of Justice because Frew is working on renewing the NGO status with the government (apparently it is about to expire). He said it has been more than 2 weeks and they have still not completed the paperwork. It was supposed to be done by today, but was not.
The rest of my day I spent sleeping and spending time with Frew's boys. However, soon after I woke up Frew said that he and Frehiwot (his wife) and his father were going to a wedding. They invited me to go along, so of course I accepted the invitation.
Ethiopian weddings are quite a long process. First you have the initial ceremony which is thrown by both the bride and groom's family. Then, two days later you have a party thrown just by the bride's family and then two days after that another party by the groom's family (I think I got that in the right order...). So, today was the second party. It was quite nice. Lots of really good food, some nice music. I always enjoy seeing other culture's ceremonies, so this was really nice. On Sunday I am supposed to be going to another wedding (I wish Frew had told me to bring a suit!!).
The weather here is perfect. Today was in the upper 60s low 70s, it was cloudy for most of today which is why it was a bit cooler. But the rainy season finished about two weeks back. So the ground has not yet dried out completely and it has not yet gotten hot. Should be a lovely couple of weeks here.
It sure feels nice to be back here. As soon as I could see Ethiopia from the airplane - and even more once I stepped onto Ethiopian soil - I had this overwhelming sensation like I was coming back home. Everything seemed so familiar to me, even Amharic words that I had forgotten came flooding back into my head. In some strange way I felt as if I had been on vacation for the last year. It is a very nice feeling and wonderful to be surrounded by so many great people. Everyone was happy to see me and it was a sweet day of reuniting with friends.
It looks like I will not be going to Sendafa until Friday. Frew has a lot of work to catch up on because he was busy the last week or two with other things. So, we will spend most of our time in Addis. Which is actually a good thing because it will allow us some time to figure out what my long term job could be here (and since that's the main purpose of this trip it's good that we have time to do it).
I think that's all for now. I'm pretty tired so I'm going to try to get some more rest and hopefully tomorrow will be back normal (the trip over took 30 hours, and I couldn't fall asleep the whole way). Luckily my dad had given me some No-Jet-Lag...I'll tell you what, that product really works. When I landed I felt like it was 7:30 in the morning, when really I should have felt like it was in the middle of the night.
Ciao!
p.s. The blog website is not working for me currently. This post was supposed to be posted on Tuesday evening Pennsylvania time, but I couldn't get it to work. So, for now I will be emailing my mom the posts and she will be posting them. Hopefully that works better.